Before beginning the screening process, please be sure that you have read the information contained under my 'Details' page. Most of the questions you may have and the persnickety details that help to streamline this process can be found there. My schedule for new friends is typically set 2-3 weeks in advance. Shorter notice is not often available but feel free to ask!

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Your initial screening email is our first point of contact and my best advice is to treat it as such! While it is of primary importance in reserving time with me, it is not something that should cause you unnecessary stress. Please remember to keep it clean, respectful and acronym free... but don't forget to have fun and show a little personality! 


P411: P278989

At a minimum, please provide a brief introduction including where you found me, and the proposed details of our date (location, duration, my place or yours). In addition, I ask that you send at least one of the following pieces of information to

  1. Provider References: names, email addresses and websites/active ads of two reputable colleagues of mine who you have seen within the last six months.

  2. Employment Verification: Full, legal name, your professional email address (no gmail, yahoo, hotmail, etc.) and verification of that address. For this option, I have a discrete, unaffiliated and unpublished email address with which to verify your professional address. I'll send a 4-6 digit code to your professional address and you simply tell me what that code is via the address you originally used in reaching out to me. Alternatively, you may send me a blank email from your professional address. If you are retired, a student, or otherwise more difficult to verify, I encourage you to get in touch with the understanding that I'll need just a few additional pieces of information.

  3. Preferred411 Verification: P411 ID + reference from one reputable colleague of mine who you have seen within the last six months.

The Senate recently passed a bill which if signed into law will put the privacy of all Americans at risk (read more about SESTA here). In an effort to ensure that our correspondence remains absolutely private I highly recommend that you make the switch to an end-to-end encrypted email host such as Protonmail. I have used this service for more than a year now and have very few complaints. Admirers who switch to Protonmail (or it's equivalent) will receive priority.

* For those with sincere celebrity concerns, I am happy to discuss a few workaround options.


All of the information provided for screening is seen by my eyes only and will remain strictly confidential. Please allow 48 hours for a response to your fully completed booking inquiry. After that time has passed, feel free to send me a gentle nudge!